How to use the Love Dice to find your Love Vitamin of the day with Paul Zolman – Love Vitamins for Life

Paul Zolman is a Love Language Linguist. He created a new way to learn the Five Love Languages to give them away. By giving them away, your vision will improve to the point that you can see them coming your way and respond appropriately. The system is so easy that even young children can be trained in this love giving system. Spoiler alert: it’s a game where everyone wins.
“love to me is not something that I sit around and wait for”, says Paul. For him, its an active approach – which led him to create the Love Dice. The different faces of the die represent different Love Languages. To learn more about the 5 Love Languages refer to https://5lovelanguages.com/
Here’s what you have to do –
🎲 Roll the die everyday
🎲🎲 Take note of the Love Language rolled
🎲🎲🎲 Practice giving away the love all day to everybody
Love Languages don’t need to be just for your partner. Paul says, “give it away to everybody, you have opportunities all day long to spread love and kindness.”
“What you’re watching for is when people light up. When they light up, you’ve probably hit on their primary, or possibly a secondary, Love language. That’s what they like. So you just take a mental note and then rinse and repeat.”
“Use the Love Dice to recognize the Love Vitamin of the day. Giving love away is really going to help you a whole lot more than sitting around waiting for it to come your way.”
The gamification makes it simple to try out all of the different forms of Love Languages. For a lot of us the concept of love languages is very prevalent. Everyone’s kind of heard of it in a roundabout way, but we always think about it in terms of what fits me. Turning this into a game, gives one an opportunity to try out all of the different flavors.
Paul shares the story of a couple that he tested the Love Dice with. The women in the relationship though that her Love Language was Acts of Service. So her partner is vacuuming the carpet, he’s washing the dishes, he’s cleaning the car, he’s doing all these chores at the house, and realizes it doesn’t affect her one bit. One day, he rolled the die and it rolled to Words of Affermation. He started saying nice words to his wife and she started lighting up. She started loving the compliments and all that comes with the words. That is when he learnt about her real primary love language.
Connect with Paul Zolman
- Website: roleoflove.com
- Book: Role of Love: The most effective way to demonstrate love everyday
- Instagram: @roleoflovedice
- Facebook: @roleoflovedice
- TikTok: @roleoflovedice
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