A journey of love to the sweet spot with Heather Claus – Love Vitamins for Life
Heather is a big fan of amazing people enjoying love, sex, and romance in happy and functional lives (whatever that might look like from human to human), which is why she’s thrilled to share her experience and knowledge of boundaries with you! ❤️
Heather wrote “Take No Sh*t! Build better relationships through discovering, creating and maintaining healthy boundaries in three (sometimes five) simple steps.” Because she hopes to create a world where more people know and understand good boundaries for all of us.
Embracing her journey through love and life, Heather Claus was the featured guest in an enlightening episode. Our conversation revolved around a potent ingredient of any relationship – setting boundaries.
Heather commenced her love journey by shading lights on her previous relationships, which were deterrents before becoming significant learning lessons. She poignantly talked about how failing multiple times led to her acquiring understanding about what she wanted from her relationships and herself. Some of the quotes she heard from her partners she shared with us
“you want too much, I’m only human.”
“your relationship expectations are unrealistic”
“no one will ever be perfect enough from you”
After that she decided to put it all on the table and be in a relationship which was 100 percent open, 100 percent honest, and no holding back. Heather says, “there is no reason for us to be in a relationship if we cannot love each other.”
The turning point with the discovery of the ‘Sweet Spot‘ theory. It is a concept where a couple encompasses shared and individual interests, blending them into a harmonious co-existence.
She believes it’s essential to honor and encourage personal space in a relationship. Heather’s theory plays out excitingly in real-life, where she and her partner share about 85% of common interests, making room for individual pastimes as well.
Another integral part of their conversation was about ‘sweating the small stuff.’ Heather argued that addressing small issues before they snowball into more significant problems is a critical love vitamin for a healthy relationship. These small issues sometimes go unnoticed until they grow bigger and become relationship roadblocks.
Ultimately, love is a skill that can be acquired and nurtured. Heather assured that deep and passionate love can be perpetual, given both individuals respect their authentic selves. She says, “love is a skill and it can be learned and you can grow your love and your passion Consistently.”
Heather and her partner, ten years into their relationship, are now enjoying the fruits of their joint effort — a bond filled with love, respect, and individuality.
Heather’s stirring narrative pushes the boundary of traditional relationship understanding, focusing on both joint and individual growth. Encouraging authenticity and transparency in relationships, Heather Claus’s story is truly a Love Vitamin of breathing new life into relationships.
Keep tuning in for more life-changing love vitamins!
Connect with Heather Claus
- Website: my.curiouser.life
- Book: Take No Sh*t!
- Facebook: heatherclaus
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